OUR STORY

After having struggled with Nic’s pornography addiction in our home for 10 years of our marriage, we decided to break the silence.


We felt SO alone.


It felt like no one else was struggling with this addiction like we were. And for both of us, it felt hopeless - there seemed to be NO WAY OUT.


Because NO ONE was talking about this. Sure, we heard the occasional encouraging and convicting sermon on the subject. But there was no couple we could turn to that could give BOTH of us advice. That could give BOTH of us hope.


Nic needed specific help and accountability to overcome his addiction. At the same time, Jess needed a community of support and help to overcome the depression, anger, and codependency she’d adopted. These were very BIG and very different needs.


We are here to LINK ARMS with you. We are here to be your sounding board. We’ve been exactly where you are. When you feel nothing is EVER going to change. That there’s NO WAY OUT. That there’s just no hope for you or your marriage.


Have faith, friend. Take courage. The Lord provides a way out - we simply have to SURRENDER. It will be hard. It will be painful. It will be WORTH IT.


Are you ready to break the cycle of pornography addiction in YOUR life? In YOUR home? In YOUR marriage?


We’re Nic and Jessica Gardner. Nic is well into his sobriety with NO TURNING BACK. We’ve been through the valley, and we're here to walk with you through yours.


It IS possible. You CAN do this.

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We tell our story, share the everyday boundaries and tactical tools we have put in place at home, and welcome any and all questions. Please message us for availability and any questions you have.

INDIVIDUAL COACHING FOR HUSBANDS

One-on-One Coaching Call with Nic

Want to talk with Nic about his personal struggle and what worked for him?  Set up a completely private one-on-one call to get the direction YOU need. (Please book soon - slots are extremely limited.)

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One-on-One Coaching Call with Jess

Want to talk with Jess about her personal struggle and what worked for her?  Set up a completely private one-on-one call to get the direction YOU need. (Please book soon - slots are extremely limited.)

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